How To Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate1. Words of AffirmationVerbal appreciation speaks powerfully to women whose primary Love Language is “Words of Affirmation.”
Simple statements, such as, "You look great!" or "You must be the best I can ever have!" are sometimes all we need to feel loved.
Aside from verbal compliments, another way is to offer encouragement.
If a loved one listens for “Words of Affirmation,” offering encouragement will help her to overcome insecurities and develop greater confidence.
2. Quality TimeQuality time is more than mere proximity. It’s about focusing all your energy on us.
Quality conversation is very important in a healthy relationship.
It involves sharing experiences, thoughts, feelings and desires in a friendly, uninterrupted context.
A good partner will not only listen, but offer advice and respond to assure us they are truly listening.
Quality activities are a very important part of quality time.
Many women feel most loved when they spend physical time together, doing activities that they love to do.
Setting aside focused time with your woman will ensure a happy relationship.
3. Receiving GiftsSome woman respond well to visual symbols of love.
Gifts are treasured as an expression of love and devotion.
Women who speak this love language often feel that a lack of gifts represents a lack of love from their partner.
Luckily, this love language is one of the easiest to learn.
These gifts need not to come every day, or even every week. They don’t even need to cost a lot of money.
Any visible sign of your love will leave them feeling happy and secure in the relationship.
4. Acts of ServiceSometimes simple chores around the house can be an undeniable expression of love.
Even simple things like buying breakfast and preparing for a birthday require some form of planning, time, effort, and energy.
Sometimes doing humble chores can be a very powerful expression of love and devotion to your partner.
Very often, both pairs in a couple will speak to the Acts of Service Language.
However, it is very important to understand what acts of service your woman most appreciates.
It is important to do these acts of service out of love and not obligation.
A man who does chores and helps out out of guilt or fear will inevitably not be speaking a language of love, but a language of resentment.
It’s important to perform these acts out of the kindness of your heart.
5. Physical TouchMany women feel the most loved when they receive physical contact from their partner.
It is important to learn how your woman speaks the physical touch language.
Some touches may be irritating and uncomfortable.
Take the time to learn the touches your woman likes.
They can be big acts, such as back massages or lovemaking, or little acts such as touches on the cheek or a hand on the shoulder.
It is important to remember that this love language is different for everyone.
What type of touch makes you feel secure is not necessarily what will make your woman happy.
It is important to learn each other’s dialects.
That way you can make the most of your hugging, kissing, and other physical contacts.
So what is your best love language??
