They say that....
...Relationship are like drugs...
There's the initial palm sweating, heart thumping high when you first begin one.
Then comes the adrenaline rush and the illusions of romance and
happily-ever-after thoughts that cloud your judgement.
But inevitably, there comes the huge depressing, heartache inducing and all the why-the-heck-did-i-do-at-this-crash at the end.
When you get the endings that you desire, it makes you joyful, melts your heart sweeter than honey and makes you believe that your knight-in-shinning-armour riding a handsome white horse , will sweep you off your feet, thus making you the most fortunate woman (princess) in this world. Everything seems to be like living in fairytales.
(Sounds too good to be true??)
However, when things takes a change (for the worst most of the time), be prepared for the endless flows of tears, heart beat plummeting to the bottom of the dark pit, sleepless nights and thoughts running wild.
Even though after each unsuccessful or sour relationship had ended, knowing how much pain and suffering one had been through, people still willingly choose to fall back to the dark hole, going through all the cycles of emotions, hell and shit again! Is this addictive, hooked on, or pure innocent (gullible) beliefs that you have to keep trying till you find your true Mr Right?
No doubt that relationships can change you to a better person, but it can also turn you to be the total opposite. The extreme.
They say that marriage is all about true love and the promises that the couple believed. Loving someone wholeheartedly, unconditionally, unselfishly and expect nothing in return.
It makes me ponder at times.
TRUE LOVE, is it really within reach?
